Dating Every Man in New York City

I had the pleasure of being a featured guest on the Girlskill podcast hosted by Anna Rova. I met Anna (who is from Moldova! I have a friend from Moldova!) in Las Palmas de Gran Canaria after seeing that she was a guest on another podcast I had done back in the USA and I reached out to connect. What ensued was a truly enlightening conversation about life, love, dating, vulnerability and my most recent status as a cougar. Haha! I hope you all enjoy the interview.


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My Craziest Date Ever!!!

All month long I've been sharing with you my craziest dates from my 17 year dating career. Today I will share the craziest date that I have ever been on. Here is the story of the time I dated a psychic from the Renaissance Faire...

This is your last chance to enter The Craziest Date Contest for a chance to win a FREE copy of my book Dating as a Spiritual Adventure: Avoid Red Flags, Rock the Journey and Find the One! Contest ends at 12 midnight Eastern Time on Monday, April 30, 2018.

Dating for Nomads

As many of you know I'm now living in Las Palmas de Gran Canaria. I was asked to give a talk about dating for digital nomads as Las Palmas is a huge digital nomad hub in Europe. What are digital nomads? Basically just people who either work remotely online or are online entrepreneurs and use their location independence to travel the world while working. There are a few noteworthy differences about this demographic. I conclude the talk with how my recent arrival in the digital nomad community got me a boyfriend! Click below to hear all about it.

Nomad Coffee Club Vol 9.: Topic: "Nomad Dating" What are the unique benefits and challenges when dating as a digital nomad? How does one attract the right partner when living such an unconventional, mobile lifestyle?

In Honor of My Father

As some of you may know, my father passed away a few weeks ago. I flew home to New Jersey to be with my family for the funeral and shiva and I am in the process of healing. For many years he suffered from bad health due to Type 2 diabetes and cardiovascular disease. This is actually a big part of the reason that I got into nutrition coaching as a profession. I wanted to help others know and act on the right information to positively influence their health.

12 years ago my father suffered a disabling stroke and had been in a nursing home ever since. Sadly my brother and I lost his full participation in our lives way too early. There is so much information that is available today about turning around the trajectory of these degenerative diseases that we did not have back when he was diagnosed. This is the subject of today's video with a special discount on coaching in honor of the memory of my father, Theodore Blake. Please feel free to forward this video to anyone that you think it would help. 

A few words about diet and lifestyle for Type 2 diabetes and high blood pressure

Valentine's Day for Single People: Is It Time to be Content with What You Have or Strive for More?

Hey everyone! Valentine's Day is upon us and I know this can be a particularly hard time for single people. I just wanted to tell you a little story about something that happened to me in New York City before I moved to Gran Canaria that may help if you're struggling today. Check it out and let me know what you think!

I'm a Canarian star!

OK not exactly a star...but after living in Gran Canaria for only one month, I was approached by an online Canarian lifestyle magazine to do a feature interview about my book and why I chose to move to Gran Canaria. (17 years living in NYC and I never made it to Page 6 of The New York Post, Time Out New York or Hamptons Magazine. One month in the Canary Islands and everyone wants to know who I am. I seriously love this place so much!)

If you can read German or Spanish, the link to the actual magazine is HERE. If you want to listen to the interview (in English of course!) watch the video below. When are you all coming to Gran Canaria to visit me???

How to Eat, Pray, Love in Only 10 Days!

As most of you know, I'll be in the Canary Islands Eat, Pray, Loving for next 8 months.

I know that is not a reality for most people. In fact, most Americans only get 10 paid vacation days a year (if that...). That's why I came up with today's video: How to Eat, Pray, Love in Only 10 Days! Watch the video and hear about how one of my clients ate, prayed and loved to her heart's content in Rome in only 10 days. 

If you've got some vacation time coming up, YOU TOO can get your Elizabeth Gilbert on. If you don't know where to begin in creating an adventure to fill your soul, I can help you. If you feel that you are stuck and having trouble releasing old negative patterns to allow in new experiences, I am offering all new clients a complimentary 30 minute strategy session by phone or Skype to see where you are holding yourself back and what action steps can be taken to move the adventure of your life in the direction you want.

And finally, as you watch this video, know this: this was the last video I filmed before I moved to the Canary Islands. You may be looking at my house and saying, "Wow Jackie. What a beautiful house you have. Why did you want to leave that behind?" Well the answer is, that's not my house. After I traveled extensively for several months a few years ago, when I came back to NYC, everything had changed. I changed. The city that once filled me with wonder and excitement now filled me with anxiety and exhaustion. Every time I thought about signing a lease for a new apartment my stomach turned. I was in a true transition phase of my life and I didn't know which way to go.

So I moved in with my mother in New Jersey. That's her lovely house. And it was not where I thought I was going to be for 2 years while I figured out my next move. (Did I mention that my mom lives in a gated retirement community and I was living there illegally? Haha, good times.) As a culture, we don't generously give people time and space to be in transition and figure things out when life doesn't turn out the way they thought it would, or when their values have totally changed. I look back and can see the blessings in that move. I got some space to finish my book, I got to travel more, I got to take workshops on coaching and also take some financial risks like running a women's wellness retreat in Puerto Rico. (May God bless Puerto Rico and the beautiful souls that live there.)

But of course the rest of the world does not see that you are in transition building for the next phase of your life. Most people only see the outward results which added up to me being 37 and moving back in with my mom. I know what it's like when you have a dream and you have to do the uncomfortable, unsexy thing to make it happen; when the people around you think you're crazy and look down on you. I've been there. If you're there, and you're looking for someone to coach you step by step through the uncomfortable, unsexy changes and transitions you may be going through in your relationships, health and career send me an email and tell me what you are working on. I will get you to that next phase with supportive vision, honest feedback and innovative solutions.

Now enjoy the video. And let's see if you can't plan your own Eat, Pray, Love.